We probably have all made the mistake of falling head over heels for a guy that we really didn’t know. We believed his words because they sounded good.
Smooth talkers know exactly what they are doing but it is up to us do some investigating to find out if they are legit.
Sometimes when there are insecurities in a relationship it could most likely stem from the two people jumping in head first and not really knowing each other. When someone tells you that they love you and that they would never cheat on you, we expect it to be true.
But because of your failure to get to know the real them, and what their lifestyle is like on the regular, things tend to not go as smoothly as we would like. It hurts when you find out that you have been lied to after you have invested so much time into that person. Especially for those of us who always keep a guard up. To let that guard
down means that someone is worth that
Once that trust is betrayed is even more difficult to trust in the future.Being single for a long period of time could easily cloud your judgment because its natural to get excited when someone shows interest in you. You just can’t forget about the precautions that you should take before going any further and calling him your boyfriend.
He could tell you whatever he wants to tell you but actions always speak louder than words. If he is real, his actions will show you that you he wasn’t just running game. Investigating a person especially in this day and age is necessary so that you won’t look like a fool in the end. He could have a wife and three kids across town
and you would never know about it
because you didn’t think to investigate.
See the key word here? The beginning stages of a relationship sets the standard for the future. If you keep falling for his smooth demeanor and sweet words from the beginning, you are letting him know that he can get over on you. Don’t allow yourself to play the fool more than once.
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